Beautiful women dating problems
His assessment requires a fundamental shift in thinking – women must not be afraid to make the first move!So what’s a midlife woman who was raised in a world where men were “supposed” to make the first move do?Often Black women have been raised to keep our poise and act like a lady at all times, especially in public and while under pressure.
Often times, if we are accomplished, we’re seen as too independent, and if we don’t have an established career and completely cater to a man’s needs, we’re often looked at as “gold diggers.” We can’t win!
Some brothers seriously think so, and feel they’ve seen evidence of it early on within relationships.
They often say they feel more supported by women of other ethnicities earlier on in their careers and during their college years.
Because of this, some Black men believe that women of other races maintain a more light, airy “fun girl” approach to love in their adult years, which they ultimately find more attractive.
They feel that after a while, our focus shifts from being the "fun girlfriend" to being more practical instead and solely concerned with insuring the house is clean, meals are made and children are taken care of.